What do I need to make my home safe for aging in place?
As you move from early retirement into less active retirement, you will need a right-sized place that is safe and manageable to live in. Often ‘safe and manageable’ is reduced to a list of helpful tips and modifications that help people focus on the immediate dangers. It’s important, but not sufficient.
The most important questions involve good health, a supportive community, and mental stimulation. Maintaining mobility, strength, engagement, and intellectual capacity all keep you safer with fewer accidents and less isolation. If you can’t get them where you are, you need to move.
Next, if you haven’t done it already, you face a choice; do you want to stay where you are and modify it for manageability and safety, or do you want to move to a place that already is. Both cost money. But moving changes more than physical space. It’s leaving people, connections, and memories too.
Next will you live alone or with someone who can/will help? If it is a spouse, and they pass will a family member move in, or will you need to move to them. Either way, if you aren’t alone, you need more space, and you may need to arrange it differently for a non-spouse. Live-in helpers need space of their own. If it is not a spouse, a second floor and garage space can provide separate space and parking.
If accessible one-floor living isn’t your starting point, you need a plan for how to either modify it so that it is, or modify it so the second floor is accessible. For example, many homes don’t have a full bath on the first floor. A home elevator can make the second-floor wheelchair accessible
Bottom line: rather than focus on the grab bars, look at the broader questions that cost real money